 1955 - ca. 2020 (64 jaar)
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| Naam |
Sietze Jan Gerrit van der Heide [1, 2] |
| Roepnaam |
Sietze |
| Geboorte |
30 mrt 1955 |
Leeuwarden(FR)  [2, 3, 4] |
| Geslacht |
Mannelijk |
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2014 [5] |
| Overlijden |
ca. feb 2020 [6] |
| Persoon-ID |
I1555 |
VanderHeide |
| Laatst gewijzigd op |
30 jul 2020 |
| Vader |
Jan van der Heide, geb. 26 jul 1919, Harlingen(FR) ovl. 7 okt 1992, Monrovia, Los Angeles, California [USA] (Leeftijd 73 jaar) |
| Moeder |
Antje Dijkstra, geb. 5 jul 1923, Sneek(FR) ovl. 1 apr 1998, Monrovia, Los Angeles, California [USA] (Leeftijd 74 jaar) |
| Huwelijk |
18 okt 1943 |
Sneek(FR) [7, 8] |
| Aantekeningen |
- Wonen in 1981 bij het overlijden van vader Eeuwe in Californië [USA].
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| Gezins-ID |
F266 |
Gezinsblad | Familiekaart |
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| (Levens)Verhalen |
 | Remembering the Good: Grieving the Loss of Old Friends
In memoriam of Sietze van der Heide, published on psychologytoday.com (https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/emotional-fitness/202003/remembering-the-good-grieving-the-loss-old-friends) and thriveglobal.com (https://thriveglobal.com/stories/remembering-the-good-grieving-the-loss-of-old-friends/) |
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| Bronnen |
- [S4196] Gesprekken met familie, 6 aug 2014, gesprek met Eric Jan van der Heide op facebook (Betrouwbaarheid: 2).
"my dad uses Eeuwe, his middle name is Sietze, which is also my uncle's name"
- [S309] California Marriage Index, 1960-1985, (familysearch.org), 18 jul 2017, https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:V6JH-PSH (Betrouwbaarheid: 3).
Sietze J Vanderheide mentioned in the record of Sietze J Vanderheide and Nancy P Nerheim
Name Nancy P Nerheim
Event Type Marriage
Event Date 03 Sep 1983
Event Place Los Angeles, California
Gender Female
Age 26
Birth Year (Estimated) 1957
Spouse's Name Sietze J Vanderheide
Spouse's Age 28
Spouse's Birth Year (Estimated) 1955
Citing this Record
California Marriage Index, 1960-1985, database, FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:V6JH-PSH : 27 November 2014), Sietze J Vanderheide and Nancy P Nerheim, 03 Sep 1983; from California, Marriage Index, 1960-1985, database and images, Ancestry (http://www.ancestry.com : 2007); citing Los Angeles, California, Center of Health Statistics, California Department of Health Services, Sacramento.
- [S94] Websites en zoekresultaten MyHeritage, (MyHeritage), 18 jul 2017, https://www.myheritage.nl/names/nancy_nerheim (Betrouwbaarheid: 1).
Californië, Huwelijken, 1960 - 1985
Nancy P Nerheim (Vanderheide), geboren 1954
Sietze Vanderheide is geboren ongeveer 1955.
Sietze trouwde met Nancy P Nerheim op dag maand 1983, op 28 jarige leeftijd in trouwplaats, California.
- [S4192] Mails met familie, 20 feb 2019, mail Sietze van der Heide (Betrouwbaarheid: 2).
Geja was born in Leeuwarden on April 3, 1945
Eeuwe was born in Leeuwarden
Sietze was born March 30 1955. I married Nancy Patricia Nerheim on September 3, 1983. We have no children.
- [S4196] Gesprekken met familie, 6 aug 2014, gesprek met Eric Jan van der Heide op facebook (Betrouwbaarheid: 2).
"My dad was the only Van Der Heide to have children"
- [S512] thriveglobal.com, (thriveglobal.com), 28 jul 2020, https://thriveglobal.com/stories/remembering-the-good-grieving-the-loss-of-old-friends/ (Betrouwbaarheid: 2).
Remembering the Good ? Grieving the Loss of Old Friends
A few weeks ago, a dear friend, colleague, and college pal passed away, and I?d like you to meet him. Dr. Sietze VanDerHeide, JD, was a brilliant and sensitive doctor and lawyer who was also a very charming fellow. He quietly added depth to the field of psychology and was just plain brilliant at helping people [?]
By Barton Goldsmith, Licensed Psychotherapist/Author at Tribune Media
Dr. Sietze Vanderheide
A few weeks ago, a dear friend, colleague, and college pal passed away, and I?d like you to meet him. Dr. Sietze VanDerHeide, JD, was a brilliant and sensitive doctor and lawyer who was also a very charming fellow. He quietly added depth to the field of psychology and was just plain brilliant at helping people figure out themselves and their relationships.
In school, he used to call me Little Buddy?and like most short guys, I don?t like being reminded of it?but coming from him, it felt like he was taking me under his wing. He wasn?t just taller, he was also smarter and more aware, and I always admired him. I called him Big Guy, and there was never a cross word between us, which is not common among strong therapists, but we could disagree in the most agreeable manner.
Dr. Sietze was the best of us, and he brought out the best in others through his work and through just being himself. He was one of those special people who just lifted you up by being with you. A specialist in neuropsychology, he worked with patients who had extreme cognitive impairments, which can be very taxing on the soul. I guess his was so big he could handle it.
It is said that we grieve in direct proportion to the amount that we loved, and many of us are very sad right now. It has also been said that we are alive until the last person who loved us forgets. I will not forget Dr. Sietze, and neither will many others. When someone touches you with their wisdom, and you can feel their love from the other side of the room, pay attention.
It is amazing how much comes back to me. I remember grad school and joking around in the halls with Pizza Man (another nickname, as Sietze rhymes with pizza), listening to each other?s early work in the field, and feeling great about growing as people and professionals on similar paths. A bond was formed, kind of like when the Beatles played in Hamburg, and our lives were from then on intertwined.
We didn?t hang out much after our careers took off, but we stayed in touch, we followed each other?s journey, and he was there for me more than a couple of times when I needed to talk. He always had good answers. It was a comfort knowing that I could reach out to him, and he would always get back to me.
I don?t remember him ever complaining much. Maybe that?s why I didn?t know he was ill. He wouldn?t want to burden anyone else with his struggle, but I?m sure many people reached out to him when they found out.
I wish I had known, so I could have shared some more time with him, but I respect his decision. My first wife, who passed away many years ago, made the same choice. It?s important to give someone you love the room they need to make their final exit in the fashion that best suits them.
He was an important person in my life, a good person, and spending more time with him would have been a wonderful experience. So now I will channel my sadness and reach out to a few more friends I haven?t spoken to in too long. Reconnecting is more important to us as time passes, and Dr. Sietze?s death is a reminder to work a little harder on it.
He was a very good man, an accomplished and notable therapist and mediator, a loving husband, and a buddy. I will miss him very much.
? Published on March 11, 2020
Barton Goldsmith, Licensed Psychotherapist/Author at Tribune Media
- [S4191] Leeuwarder Courant, (LC), 19 jul 2017, http://www.archiefleeuwardercourant.nl/vw/article.do?id=LC-19921010-8028&vw=org&lm=jan%2Cheid%2C0%2CLC (Betrouwbaarheid: 3).
- [S110] BS gemeente Sneek, huwelijken, (Tresoar), 30 jul 2020, https://allefriezen.nl/zoeken/deeds/438c8b34-455c-3f34-80ca-4401418183ed?person=cd1dee63-b629-7a49-8097-e71cbb94d516 (Betrouwbaarheid: 3).
Huwelijksregister 1943
Bron: BS Huwelijk
Soort registratie: BS Huwelijk akte
(Akte)datum: 18-10-1943
Vader van de bruidegom Eeuwe van der Heide (houtzager) leeftijd 53 jaar, wonende te Harlingen
Moeder van de bruidegom Jacoba de Vries leeftijd 51 jaar, wonende te Harlingen
Bruidegom Jan van der Heide (zaadhandelaar) leeftijd 24 jaar, geboren te Harlingen, wonende te Sneek
Bruid Antje Dijkstra leeftijd 20 jaar, geboren te Sneek, wonende te Sneek
Vader van de bruid Sietze Dijkstra (groentehandelaar) leeftijd 53 jaar, wonende te Sneek
Moeder van de bruid Geertje Hakze leeftijd 55 jaar, wonende te Sneek
Getuige 1 Melle van der Heide, 30 jaren, brugwachter, wonende te Harlingen, broeder van den bruidegom
Getuige 2 Jan Dijkstra, 24 jaren, wonende te Sneek, zaadhandelaar, broerder der bruid
Bronvermelding
Huwelijksregister 1943, archiefnummer 30-34, Burgerlijke Stand Sneek - Tresoar, inventarisnummer 2082, aktenummer 0090
Gemeente: Sneek
Periode: 1943
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